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7 Creating a number of things..power is the real work of mourning is not something you can do (see 1), but you can reduce the ‘normal’ life needs a friend. IT tasks or repetitive tasks that can be done? Things like walking the dog, stuffing recipes, shoveling snow, and bring the mail are all good choices. Support your friend to small, ordinary – these things are a concrete manifestation of love.Try to do something that is irreversible – like washing or cleaning the house – if you check with your friend first. next to an empty bottle of soda sofa may look like junk, but you may need to stay with her husband a couple of days. Linen can be the last thing you want. You see where I’m coming from? A bit ‘of ordinary things become precious. Ask first.8. undertake projects.
Depending on the circumstances, they can be difficult tasks – things that deal with the coffin, mortuary tours, packing and sorting room or at home. Support and monitoring of their own. Follow the example of your friend to this information. Your presence next to them is a powerful and important; word is often unnecessary. 4 Remember, to testify and to be there.New griever, the influx of people who want to show their support can not seriously be overwhelming. This is very personal and private time can start to feel like living in an aquarium. There may be ways to protect and preserve the friend of a designated contact person – which broadcasts to the outside world, or organize supporters. Gatekeepers are really helpful.You may find that other friends, relatives and casual acquaintances, ask a friend. To a great educator of the genre, although in a subtle way. To standardize responses to pain, it is best to worst moments and times, and long. heavy casualties changes every detail of your life. ‘If someone asks you a bit on the road to your friend, you can say things like:’ The pain never stops. He must wear a variety of ways.Above all, show your love. Show. Say something. Do something. Arranged next to the hole, which is open to the life of a friend, without a wink or away. Be prepared, they do not have all the answers. Listen. Visit. To be present. Be a friend. Love. Love is what lasts.